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my crush doesn't talk to me
I have a crush on this boy. But every time I sit beside him, he doesn't talk to me. He talks to the person beside him, the one behind him, the one in front of him, anyone except me. The only thing that makes me feel like I exist is when I saw him look at me.
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Maybe he doesn't talk to you because you never start a conversation?
Say hi, ask him how he is? You don't need to have a massive conversation, the more small talk you have with eachother over the next couple of weeks, will allow you to have bigger conversations as you will get to know little bits about eachother.
How can he think anything is wrong with you, if he doesn't know anything about you? You cannot hate someone if they have done nothing wrong. Stop worrying and just say hello. I can assure you he does not hate you.
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Well there could be lots of reasons why he doesn't talk to you.
Maybe he just doesn't feel like he knows you well enough to talk to you or he's extremely shy or something.
Maybe try finding little things to bring up. Like, something that will grab his attention. If it starts off small, it could get bigger to where you guys would talk more.
Just be friendly and he'll come around.
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He sounds like he's chronically shy and doesn't know how to break the ice!
Could you make life a bit easier for him with a smile? He might react positively then.
You don't mention how old you are but your comment "the only thing that makes me feel like I exist is when I saw him look at me" makes me think you're quite young. You said you have a crush on him which is normal when you're young (sometimes not so young too!) but be careful not to concentrate too much on this boy. He might be a bit overwhelmed by your already well-developed crush when he's still in the 'interested but too shy to do anything about it' stage. Give him a smile and encouragement, ask him about himself, he might blossom!
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Don't take it personally, but maybe he doesn't know you well enough to just strike up conversation? Is he a little shy?
Anyway, it shouldn't always be left up to the boy. Why don't you initiate it? I don't mean like the usual "hi" because that might not lead anywhere, give him something to answer to, such as, "that's nice, where did you get it?" If you ask about him, he will answer. People like talking about themselves.
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