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I have a question about boys sort of? Im 13.
Hi Zane! Im Gracie! Remember me? Probably not huh? LoL :)
Anyway, I have a question about, like guys and dating and stuff. Kinda, 2 questions actually.
Well, Im 13 and he's 16.
Okay so my first question is, is it weird to date someone with the same name as your brother? His name is Matt and my brothes name is Matt. It's kinda awkward and my friends say some stuff like its gross and stuff and it's kinda embarrassing. What do you think?
My second question is, Do you think its wrong for us to date each other because he's older? I really, really like him Zane and he says that he likes me too but he doesnt want his friends to know we're dating because they're gonna say stupid stuff about it because he's older and everything. I mean, I don't see the bid deal and it kinda hurts my feelings a little. He wants to keep it a secret that we're dating. It kinda makes me feel like he's ashamed of me or something. Maybe Im just being over sensitive?
But I like him alot, maybe even love him a little and I dont want to keep us a secret. I told my bestfriend Natalie that we were dating now and Matt (My boyfriend not my brother) found out and he got really mad and he hit me. I get why he was mad. He's popular, and has lots of friends and tons of girls that wish they could be his girlfriend and he gets mad when his frinds say stuff about him hanging out with me. It makes him upset. Its just that I've like him for a long time and I've alwaysed wish he would like me back and date me. I dont want to hide it from everybody. What if other girls start flirting with him because they dont know he's dating me?
Am I being stupid?
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Hello Gracie,
I do accept inbox messages, Only if they are answer appropriate. :)
My main concern in what you asked is that you stated he hit you when he found out that someone knew about your relationship. This is wrong, No guy/girl should ever abuse their partner. Abuse should never be tolerated under any circumstances. If anyone ever laid a hand on me, I would most definitely walk out of the relationship and find someone that won't hit me. Second, Age plays a big role when you are young, Technically this guy wouldn't be able to get into any legal trouble until he turned 17-18 yrs. However to be completely honest with you hun I don't think anyone who hurts you physically is right for you. That is abuse and nobody should ever be ashamed to hide a relationship. The whole point in being with someone is too be happy and proud to be with that person. This is up to your of course but please don't let someone hurt you.
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