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has he just lost interest?
18 f
im a freshman in college and the first week i hooked up with this one guy. we really hit it off and even though we had sex within the first couple days of meeting he continued to show interest in me by texting me pretty much everyday and hanging out. we would even hang out sober and were really getting to know eachother. we developed this fun flirty friends with benefits kind of relationship. im not the jealous type and ive told him not too worry about hooking up with other girls. hes a really sweet guy who seemed more into me than i was into him to be honest. he always wanted me to sleep over and watch movies with him and was always telling me that i was gorgeous and really chill and things like that. thats why i was suprised when he stopped texting me so much. now im not the type of girl to chase guys so i havnt been texting him either. but is it wrong of me to assume that hes always going to be the one to text me first? i mean i dont want a serious relationship and neither does he but i still just like hanging out with him and honestly hooking up with him. i dont want to seem clingy by texting him because its college and i know how guys are, but i dont want this fling to die out either. i mean it has only been a week since we last hung out and weve talked once since.
i guess what i want to know is do you think im just overreacting? or do you think hes moved on and lost interest in me? and if so, should i make a move to show him im into him or should i just let it go?
thanks in advance!!
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Neither of you have told the other how you feel, so maybe he's testing the water, checking out whether the relationship is going anywhere by waiting to see your reaction when he doesn't contact you first.
I'd send a casual text saying I wondered if he'd like to go see .... whoever. Judge his feelings if/when he replies. Hope this helps.
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First of all,. he may have stopped texting you because of the fact its ALWAYS him texting first. A friendship goes both ways where you text first also. I would start texting him more to let him know that the interest is mutual not just one sided. even if it is just for FWB it can definetly turn into something alot more someday.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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