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HELP ME PLEASE!! Im scared now
Dear adviceman49 you answered my question about showering with my dad and i need to know more. I didnt think it was wrong and im still a little confused on why exactly it is because my dad loves me. Why is it so wrong, Ive done it since i was 5 and dad says its fine that we do. IM really confused! But i have apologized to my friends since reading your advice. But I dont want my dad to go to jail or anything. I live with my mom part time and she doesnt know. Should i tell her? Also I thought i would talk with my dad about it and ask him and he didnt like me bringing it up and we got into a huge fight! he slapped me and told me not to talk about it again! He came into the shower again and apologized later. It was the first time in ten years since i have showered without my dad. Im scared now and dont understand. What should I do?
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Did you call RAINN as I asked you to do. At this point they are far better qualified to help you then I am as they can talk to you an ask questions of you. There are questions that need to be asked and responded to.
You have done nothing wrong, please understand that. As I thought you have been doing something that you have found to be quite normal as you have been doing it since you were to young to no better. It is not normal for a child your age or even age 5 to shower with a parent or any adult of the opposite sex.
You father got mad because he knows he has been wrong. He may have not done anything wrong in a sexual sense. But under the law he didn't have too. Whether he goes to jail or not is not up to you. One of your friends is bound to tell their parent or a friend of theirs who will tell their parent. The cat so to speak is now out of the bag. Even in telling your friend you did nothing wrong for you did not know what you where doing is wrong. So do not blame yourself for whatever happens.
You need to tell your mom and go back to living with her. What happens next is really up to you mom. Please call RAINN and let them help you and call mom now and tell her everything.
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