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to tell, or not to tell?
i have 4 friends: A, J, D, and P. A and J are together (in an open relationship, so they hook up with other people). P and D are together. A and P used to be together, but they broke up a year ago. A and D have been best friends since they were really young.
now, onto the problem: J told me the other day that P and A hooked up when P was with D. J's not one to lie about something like that. A and P have been my friends longer than i've been friends with D but i know i should tell her what i heard. but i was thinking i'd do a bit of research first.
and my questions are:
A) should i tell D what J told me?
B) if i want to make sure its really true, how do i find out?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Even though, you trust this person, you shouldn't tell D anything, until you have solid information to back it up, because it can ruin your friendship. And if you want to get the info you want, then something you can do is ask P yourself, and say that she can trust you. In the end, if they did really hook up, you should keep it to yourself, trust me when I say it ruins friendships. Also if P denies it then you should go with your gut feeling, and believe who you want to believe.
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