I am in love with this actor. I know everyone says that, but I'm almost positive we're soul mates. I am seriously in love with him. And it's not in that crazy stalker way. The only thing is, he's gay. I figure, he's still young and that can change, but I'm just losing faith. I'm afraid I'm losing him. I mean I'd die for him and he doesn't even know I exist. I just don't know what to do anymore:(
OctoberBeat answered Saturday August 27 2011, 2:22 am: You can't change people. However I personally don't think love is just about being attracted to a certain gender, as much as it is connecting on a level of understanding each others wants and needs, if you like him. But he's not attracted to you in the same way. You can't really do anything about it. But if you're afraid of losing him. Say to yourself would you rather have him in your life as just a friend or not at all. Good luck. [ OctoberBeat's advice column | Ask OctoberBeat A Question ]
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