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My ex boyfriend that cheated on me is calling me


Question Posted Wednesday August 24 2011, 3:50 pm

I use to be really good friends with this guy for about a year then he asked me out. We dated and long story short, I was around the corner from his house when all of a sudden his ex girlfriend (who by the way claims she's in live with him and she absolutely hates me) was walking out of his house. It was about 2 a.m and only him and his cousin were there. We got into a big argument and I left. It's been about a month since that night. I haven't talked to him since then. I seen him last week but he was way ahead of me talking to one of our mutual friends. He turned around an turned back around real fast. today I woke up with a missed call from him at 2 in the morning. I texted him this morning saying "I was asleep." he texted back saying "I was gonna go see you. I had my mom's car" I texted back saying "haha you shouldn't be taking your mom's car" an he said "she let me borrow it" I stopped texting back. Should I wait for him to contact me again or what should i do? Thanks in advance.

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Xui answered Thursday August 25 2011, 12:55 am:
Why the hell are you still in contact with someone who cheated on you with an ex? Damn, It just seems like the same things just go on over and over these days.


Your ex boyfriend disrespected you, You trusted him did you not? If he cheated on you then he doesn't deserve you in a relationship and he most definitely doesn't deserve your friendship. Guess what, If his ex girlfriend was there at 2am then that right there should tell you something was going on even if he had his cousins in the house. It's just sketchy and I think you know damn well that you deserve better than his cheating ass. I'm not trying to be a full blown prick, I'm tell you that you really should show yourself some respect and know that you deserve someone who will treat you right. Not take your trust and throw it out the window, If you crawl back to him then you just told him it was okay to cheat on you. Do not give him that alternative.

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