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What is going through his head??
So this guy... (Matt)I like him.
The probelm... I don't know if I stand a chance.
Background: Matt is seventeen, a senior. I'm sixteen, a junior. Freshman year I dated one of his best friends. It ended reeeeally badly on the last day of school. Through out my sophomore year, Matt and my ex drifted, and Matt and I grew closer. But I was kind of in between liking Matt and another guy so it fizzed. But I would go out to lunch with him about once a week, and we'd talk when we saw eachother, always reallly flirty. And he wanted to ask me to prom, but the other guy asked me first... (That's when it fizzed). Over the summer we said we would talk alot but he was out of town (visiting family) for like a month. And the thing is, he hates being on his phone. Like, he doesn't like texting, or even calling. So though we used to hang out one on one, we don't really anymore and we don't have a lot of mutual friends. But recently, it seem's like he's been making an effort to see me more or text me more, but it's reallyyyy not much. I just don't know what to do. I really like him. And I think he likes me, cause he IS really flirty (slaps my butt, telss me to go to all his games) and his friends all think he likes me cause apparently he doesn't "go out of his way this much" for a girl before. But I've never met a guy as confusing as this... So what now??
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it doesn't sound too complicated to me.. I think he was just jealous/intimidated because of the other guy who asked you to prom. But now since that guy is out of the picture, he maybe has more courage to talk to you. One thing you should know about guys is that their friends know more than you do. If his friends say that they've never seen him go out of his way for a girl but is for you.. then take that as a complicated. It means that he is really fighting for you. Its good to play hard to get, but don't lead him on. Right now he's fighting for you, give him some reward :)
If it doesn't work out.. then it doesn't work out. You gotta risk it to get the biscuit. Just relax and enjoy the ride, because this is what life is about. taking risks and living life.
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He likes you and he's making this clear!
Guys love confident girls and the days are gone where the man has to do all the work. Believe it or not, guys like it when girls take initiative. Ask him out and see where it goes. I think you'll find he's very receptive.
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You definitely stand a chance. This guy likes you--a lot.
Don't wait around for him to try to hang out with you more. He's probably wondering RIGHT NOW the same things you are: does she like me? She's not making a big effort to see me...
It's okay to take the first step and ask him!
Good luck.
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