nkem answered Tuesday August 23 2011, 2:22 pm: it is really a bad thing to think of not to talk about doing it, its really absorbed pls just try to erase that thought from your mind always see her as your mom not the order way round. if you want to have sex i think you should get your self a girl friend. [ nkem's advice column | Ask nkem A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Tuesday August 23 2011, 9:27 am: I'm sure your mom is very pretty and may even be flattered that you find her a sexual being. While I don't know this for certain I am also fairly sure it is illegal in Iran for you to have sex with your mom and Muslim culture most likely forbids this as well.
That being said you are also not some freak by finding your mother sexual attractive. In the psychological world this is called the "Oedipus complex", as researched by Dr. Sigmund Freud. You can read more about this in the link I have provided. Basically it is the first sexual attraction a young boy has he has attached to his mother. It is quite common and most boys find other outlets for their sexual needs and attractions.
To have sex with your mother, sister or cousin is called incest and most modern society's have strict laws against this. I would not try to do something about having sex with your mother. As I said you finding her sexually attractive may be flattering to her. You wanting to actually have sex with her will most likely end up with her being disgusted with you.
You live in a very strict religious custom society which I know little about. I would suggest you speak to your Imam about your thoughts and sexual needs.
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