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Am I depressed or obessed
Hi so long story short I'm 15f and the guy is 17m andwe had a lot of flirting going on in summer 2010 nothing happened and I guess you can say it's the closest I ever got with a guy. He switched schools last school year half way through idk why. But he randomly just stopped texting me way back in septtember. No I just over think things all the time and I'm allways sad bc I miss him and I want that summer back. And I hear stories about him doing stuff with other girls and yet they don't effect me the way I think I still feel. Ive been wanting to get over him bug allways he just pops into my head and I don't share stuff with people so I allways just go in my room and cry like every day:( please help to getoverhim
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You're not depressed or obsessed, you're a normal teenage girl!
I remember when I was 15 and had the biiigest crush on a guy in a few of my classes, which lasted for about a year!
At any age, when you like someone and they stop talking to you, it hurts. Whether you're 15 or 25, you always get upset that the guy you like doesn't feel the same way back. The difference is that this is one of the first guys you've liked a lot. I know it's one of the first guys you've liked a lot because you're still upset about what happened.
I promise you'll find someone else and get over this guy eventually, it just takes some time. The best way to get over someone is to take a deep breath, hold your head up high and enjoy your life. It's okay to be sad and cry, but you should be happy! Spend more time every week outside of school with your friends, by surrounding yourself with people you love and happy times you'll become a happier person.
The only thing that will help you get completely over him is time. You liked him a lot, and that's why it hurts so much. But think about it as a good thing. Isn't it wonderful that you were able to feel something so strong? Not everything in life can be good, you have to take the bad that comes with it to.
Don't keep it all pushed down inside of you, talk to your friends! I love being able to talk to my best friends about problems and if I'm still sad about old boyfriends and what-not. And I love when my friends come to me to talk, because it means they trust me and want to share their personal thoughts and feelings with me.
What you feel is completely normal, every girl I know has gone through the same thing! Just don't let this stop you from living your life and being happy. So remember, spend more time with friends, don't forget to smile, and always remember that you WILL get over him in time.
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