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I'm hopeless


Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 7:48 pm

Hi, I'm a 19 years old girl currently studying in university. I have no close friends since high school and now I'm finding it hard to find friends in uni. Im not shy to initiate conversation and tried lo lift up conversation. However, most of the time people don't seem to be interested. I used to have a friend who I met at uni orientation. We are not close but same classes made us see each other frequently. She is smart and serious type of girl, and I always be very careful not to say anything insulting. But since I start second semester, she avoids me. I can't ask her what happen because I'm too scared and I'm finding myself alone. I know something must be wrong in my personality because this problem always happen. During high school, in first year I hung a lot with many friends, but then the numbers progressively decrease since then and in my final year, I only have 1 close friends who I can share anything with. How should I change myself? Thanks for anyone who answers this question...I really need the advice

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Additional info, added Thursday August 25 2011, 11:14 am:
I'm from indonesia and currently studying in Australia. I am not the only child, i have an older sister, who is adopted and has down syndrome, but our family loves her very much. I don't come from a broken home family, although my parents do argue constantly. However, i know that my mother is hanging there because of us (me and my sister). My father isn't bad or abusive, he is loving and caring but he does expect me to do well in academic.
I'm currently single, and only has 2 previous relationships.

Thanks, hope this info helps
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Never2bAlone answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 10:36 pm:
Before I begin to give advice could I get some additional information? Are you from the United States? If not, what country are you from? How far away is the university from your home? Are you an only child? Are you from a broken home, single parent home, mixed household, or two biological or adoptive parents you have always known and loved? Are you in a relationship with anyone (boyfriend)?

If you feel comfortable answering all or some of the above questions it will help me give you better more relative information.

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