Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:27 am
I have been sexually harrassed and i want to talk to ther girls who have similar experince with me
when i was on the bus there was a boy thrown condom at me first it looked like a balloom it wasnt. when i was in the swimming pool there is a boy grab my breast and bottom i told him to stop but he doesnt stop. when i got on taxi. taxi driver masturvate infront of me . i dont know how to deal with it and i want to know how it make them to stop
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? masterclinic answered Thursday August 18 2011, 10:38 pm: The reason why they do this stuff to you is because you dont stick up for yourself; you really think telling them no is going to work?
You need to get mad; yell and cuss at them, or humiliate them, you can even hit them. Making them feel stupid works the best, ill tell you how you should have handled each situation
1. The bus. You should have grabbed the condom shoved it in his face and slapped him
2. The pool. You should have screamed at him and kicked him in that "one" place
3. taxi. You should have made fun of how tiny he was and got out of the taxi (and obviously not have paid for it).
Your not the only girl that gets sexually harassed, and i have to say more girls do what you do (which is nothing) then stick up for themselves.
Your gunna get a bunch of answers saying to tell somebody but you should know by now thats not going to work, if you can stick up for yourself your going to show alot of confidence and things like this wont happen anywhere close to as much [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
Razhie answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:45 am: On the bus you speak to the bus driver and complain about the harassment from the boy.
In a swimming pool you leave the pool and report the behaviour to the lifeguard or operator of the public pool.
In the cab you yell at him, tell him to pull over, record his licence plate or driver ID and report him to both his taxi company AND to the police.
Sexual harassment is wrong, and it’s impossible for young women to protect themselves from it all the time. No matter how perfectly you dress or behave, there are people who might harass you. The best thing you can do is embarrass them and report them. Sexual harassment continues, and harasser move on to the next victim. The best thing you can do for yourself and every other woman these men run into is report their behaviour to authorities, and if those authorities don’t take you seriously, keep at them until they do. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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