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The guy I'm in love with is going to college and I will barely see him.
Okay, so this guy I am absolutely in love with is going to college soon and he loves me too. We want to be together for as long as we can, but its going to be hard when he goes to college. Plus I'm only a junior in high school. So, its not like I can drive to go see him. We will barely see each other and I can't stand to be away from him. How can I make this work with us?
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Alright, you've got a long road ahead of you. I am currenlty in a long distance relationship and have been for over a year, and I only see my boyfrined twice a year. It's one of the hardest things in the ENTIRE world. I won't lie to you about that. It's worth it though, it'll only be a few years and you guys can be together. That's how you have to look at it.
Now to make your relationship work the main thing is COMMUNICATION and TRUST. Your boyfriend is in college, so he will have a busy schedule that will differ from your schedule. So it will be hard to find times to talk. Don't get mad if he misses a chat with you, just stay positive. Also I suggest skype where you can video call, or facetime if you have iphones. Trust is probably one of the most important things because you will have to trust in your love for each other. I know you think that'll be easy. But it isn't. There will be times where he has to work with a girl on a project, or he adds girls on his facebook and you will be jealous. Even though you know he isn't cheating, and never would. You will be jealous. It's natural just don't let it get in the way of your relationship.
One this my boyfriend says that I do too much is complain about the lack of time we get to talk to each other, apparently that bugs guys. SO I suggest you just stay positive. Try to see each other certain times a year, or holidays if you can. Even though I only see my boyfriend twice a year it is a WONDERFUL time when we do actually see each other. Also, this will make your relationship stronger in the long run.
GOOD LUCK , from one Long distance girlfriend to another :)
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