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Getting to the point I am getting lost
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Thank You for letting me fills out my guts! Frist I explained little about myself. I am 26 years old I am Hard of Hearing and I Live with my parents. I don’t drive and have a Job. looking for one. Anyway I am Dating Guy for 2 half years. I love him very much he is a nice and sweet and funny. Thing is we have differences. Like Religion. It not a big issue to me but it sure is for him and his family. Thing is there beliefs they read the bible from words to words. They don’t celebrated holidays and that we don’t need crosses and pictures I know in the bible say don’t make or worship idols. I know that. And me and my family are very compassion and we try to do God work by care and doing for others. I mean it not really big deal to me if they don’t want to do holidays and know we don’t need have crosses and such. I can get that but thing is real issue is him dragging me down sometimes and thing is I should of mention I know it not really excuse to say… I am hard of hearing and well growing up little behind. I am using words thing to correct my spelling and grammar. Thing is that he has a sister that is married to a family have their own little church that they go to and read the bible for their self. Thing is that couple people that talks don’t know very well and they don’t know me and of course I don’t think want to. Thing is that I am not very comfortable around people that try to teach me or I was like that when I was in school. Plus I am not comfortable around people I don’t know very well. The church I went with my mom we grow up same church and I know people our church because I know them. And I know that we go to church and worship God and I do from my heart and I am very compassion. Thing is I know it hard find real problem here. I think that I do take things wrong way and I know that but sometimes I don’t think my boyfriend don’t seem get it. I think I am losing the love I have for him. He wants to cuddle and kiss all the time and I am not in to it. I don’t know what it is. Is there something wrong with me? Other thing is when I am getting close to PMS is when I get feel out of whack. Thing is I have to be on pills have PMS . I was born little behind and well sometimes I am more of child mind.. Because I am in a fourth grade level and still watch kids’ shows. I do watch some adult shows and movie. It just that I guess I have a young spirit. Well thing is I am going thou depression because I live at home and don’t drive I have I can’t. I kind lost interests of things I want to-do crafts and other things I kind of play on my iPhone and face book. And my boyfriend lives with him parents to and he almost 30 and going lineman school and try save money. I mean we play games together and laugh. And just when he starts talking about religion I feel like he expects me to say something or want me to learn. I do know way I know. I didn’t grow up someone telling me who or what to do I have my own option and am I am good person. I might not read the bible because it hard for me to understand it and I want to. And I don’t like how he want just teach me and I don’t like it I guess. So I think so far pretty much it what I have to say and thanks so much.
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It sounds like he is pressuring you into learning about religion more. If you don't want to learn about it, you have to tell him point blank. And its alright if you are not comfortable around meeting new people or being in large groups, because that is normal. Him trying to teach you about the bible only makes you even more uncomfortable. You have to set guide lines and boundaries for your relationship. You have to specifically tell him, hey I don't like when you do this or I feel the most uncomfortable when you do this. Explain to him that you love God, you love the bible, and you appreciate his effort but you don't want him to do it. Guys tend to do things without realizing how much it makes the other person feel whether good or bad. Guys tend to be oblivious or don't really notice things. I know how you feel when it comes to losing feelings for someone, and the only way out of it is by talking to the person. And make sure they are listening and paying attention. Guys tend to go in their own little world. If you have any more questions feel free to send me another inbox.
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