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What to do when you are really shy and you like a shy guy?
I'm 16 years old and I like this guy who is 2 years older than me. He works at the same place i do and goes to the same school as me. He is really shy and because i'm shy too, i struggle to show my emotion toward him. When people jokingly say "have you asked him out yet?" or when they say to him "have you asked her out yet?" we both just say "no" and act like we're not interested. We had to work together the other night and we talked for the first time, but i dont know if he's actually interested in me or not. What is your advice about how i can see if he likes me back and what i should say to him if we ever talk again?
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Hi,
I know how you feel. My boyfriend was a shy guy and I was a bit shy too, but we found a way to connect. The next time you see your guy, ask if he wants to go for pizza after or to just get a drink. Once you are able to find some time together, see if you have common interests and then see if you could do those things together (movies, sports, games, etc). Only after you spend time together will you be able to tell if he likes you. It is all about how he acts. If he stares at you, touches your arm, smiles, asks to see you again, is fidgity, or stutters when he talks, those are all hints.
First you have to catch his attention. Be brave, see if he wants to hang out and go from there <3
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Talking is the first step,.
You want to get to know him better and by talking to him you will do that.
Try flirting with him a bit,. Like if there's no one around and your walking by him say you look really good today and smile and then go back to what you were doing:) That will show that you are interested.
It seems that he might be interested.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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