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He kissed me, and I never heard from him again? What does this mean?
I'm 13/f and I have a friend named Derek,and he's 16/m.I don't know if I could say what we had was a relationship,but if felt like it.When we first met,we both introduced ourselves,and he kissed my hand.And after that,we became inseperable.We would kiss,hold hands,and hug each other.But then he asked me if I loved him,because his sister said he was going to kill hiself,but he said it wasn't true.So when he asked if I loved him,I said yes,and he felt the same way.Then he kissed me one last time,and I haven't heard or seen him since.Why?
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well how long have you not hear from him for? if its been more then a week or two.. should reconsider if the guy is worth it... guys who are suicidal need help and it would be great if you could help him out , it could mean a lotto him , obviously he likes you and you like him... but maybe he is busy or he is not interested anymore... dont keep your priorities high.. everything will be fine you just need time and there are so many guys out there that are a lot better then him... its great you guys were good , but connection is the key and hespulling away for some reason , just be careful he might just want some space.. some guys are different then others just give them space. dont worry it will work out
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Hey there:)
Okay well from what you said and to be brutally honest it sounds like this guy was just using you.
I know that probably isn't what you want to hear but the fact that he is 3years older leads me to that conclusion aswell.
He's a guy. Like many he got what he wanted and now he is moving on.
He fed you a lie about his sister going to kill herself..that's a horrible thing to say don't you think and a very serious issue at that. Suicide should not be used to guilt you into saying I love you to him.
I think it's time for you to move on.
You are still really young and have plenty of time to meet other guys ones closer to your age who won't lie to you kiss you and then not contact you again. You deserve better than that.
If you really want an explanation text him ask him what's the deal maybe its possible theres stuff going on in his life but it's no excuse to completely ignore you.
Be wise and don't let guys walk all over you.
Good luck :)
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much <3
Jess 17/f
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