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Getting My Wife Back
My wife and I seperated a year ago. During this time we both have dated other people. She has mentioned several times that she wants to get back together, but every time that I do what she asks and try, she says that I am putting too much preasure on her. She has told me on four seperate occassions that she has broken up with her boyfriend, and we have gone out on dates, but then I catch her on dates with him, and she says that she lied to me. Is there anything that I can do, or should I just give up?
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You should just give up. If your wife wanted you, she wouldn't lie to you. She would display that she wants you in action, not just words. Also, here is the thing, if you want her back, step back for a lil' bit. Stop seeing her, stop buying her things, and stop taking her out! Leave her alone and let her do what she wants to do, as you see she is going to do it anyway! I am not sure as to what happened with the two of you, but I will say this, IF you split up b/c of lies, cheating, and deception (and for real I sense a bit of manipulation too- unsure of whose end yet it does exist somewhere in this mess), your relationship will NEVER be the same so why even bother it. Move on.. As soon as you do, she will want you back, and then the ball is in your court. YOU ARE THE MAN, YOU ARE THE LEADER, YOU ARE THE HEAD, So you have to take control of your relationships and where you want it go to in the future. Trust me, step back, get your stuff together, start FOCUSING ON YOU!! B/c u haven't been.. "smile" Yes, I do know... anyway, start focusing on YOU... and then when she tries coming back, TAKE IT SLOWLY, IF U WANT HER, WHICH I WOULDN'T WANT HER.. Remember this, YOU ARE NOT SECONDARY MATERIAL TO ANYBODY OR ANY1! You are FIRST and if she can't appreciate, or see that, then why waste your time continuing to show her? You aren't a dog, and shouldn't be made to do tricks or jump through hoops, ITS TIME FOR HER TO START JUMPING through hoops, you have chased her long enough!! Now move on!! Go to your browser, type in Venomtheonly1 Move ON... and listen to it. or go to reverbnation.com/venomtheonly1 AND listen to Move on. It's my single, and it's me singing, so listen to it and listen closely! Let this be your motivation, and remember to always KEEP IT MOVIN'.. Peace, Venom
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