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DREAM?! Please help..
So my parent's don't like the guy i'm seeing. I got in a huge fight with them and I want to move out , but that's a different story. I had a dream last night I broke down completley.
My dream was the guy im seeing not being able to see him anymore and in my sleep I missed him so much I don't want to lose him then all of a sudden theres this other guy or two and they aren't him and I was so angry I didn't want them at all I just really missed him.. then when I seen him I was so relieved. All of a sudden, there was a cellphone and it sounded like two people were having intercourse... and I went home because I was scared I was cheated on and then I stopped.
What is the meaning of all this?
Please help.
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I am a teenager and i have been in your situation. My mom also did not want me seeing this one guy. But in my head i thought she doesnt know the guy i know, she doesnt see what i see. Hes a great person, he is and he loves me. but what i had forgotten is my mom loves me too. She wants the best intentions for me, just like your parents do. And your parents would never do anything to hurt you thats a promise. But this guy, its not a guarentee its a maybe. You've got to remember that. but i was stupid and decided i was going to chose the guy and i ended up in heart break. It could have been avoided but i didnt want to let go of him. And even after my heart was broken i managed to love him with the pieces i had left of my heart at the time. Maybe this dream is a sign. To show you just what your getting into. The decision is ulitmately yours but heres a couple quotes for you to think on.
“Sometimes, we are afraid of moving on because we prefer sticking to the things we know all about. We call this certainty. We tend to hold on to something, just because we’ve gotten used to it. Making changes has a certain risk and people are afraid of this risk. But, you should know that this risk is never greater than your potential success.”
"There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life
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Hey there :)
Well I guess its just a representation of how your feeling deep down. That's what I usually take dreams like that to mean.
You obviously like this guy a lot and you are scared of loosing him. Your dream seems to be portraying just that. Your fears and insecurities. Other times you might dream about your hopes and aspirations..or something completely random.
If you take dream interpretation seriously then I suppose there is a lot to get out of it.
Maybe its your subconscious' way of letting you know maybe he isn't for you after all.. hence the cheating part? and the fact that your parents don't approve may be a considering factor. Do they disapprove for genuine good reasons of concern?
Our parents always have our best interests at heart. I'm not saying break up with your boyfriend because of a dream im just exploring the possibilities.
Don't read too much into it. Sometimes our dreams hold important messages in life other times they just reflect how we are feeling.
Hope this gave you some insight,what I would be more worried about is your parents not liking him.,. you don't want to fall out with your family and those you love for a guy unless he is 100% worth it. Especially if your young too. If they don't like him for trivial reasons well then you are right to keep seeing him.
Hope this clears things up your dream could mean anything or nothing really!
Much <3
Jess
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