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Hello... Again
My Dad Has Asked Me Before Do I Wanna Pack
All My Shit And Go Live With My Boyfriend That's The Way He Said It And I've Always Said No Cause I Was Scared But Now I'm Not Anymore And If I Say Yes And Do That Will Everything Be Better I Think So But Can I Ask For Your Opinion? Cause He Wants To Kick Me Out Already?
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I'm sorry but when I receive a question I have no way of telling who is asking the question. So I am only assuming you are the 15 year old girl I have been emailing back and forth all today. If you are not her I do apologize and please write me back with a bit more detail so that I can give the correct advice for your situation.
If you are the 15 year old girl has your dad given you the option of having the abortion and staying with him or keep the baby and move out?
If you keep the baby and he wants you out and your boyfriends parents are whilling to support you than I would definately make that move now. Get adjusted and take the support your boyfriend and his family are willing to give. However, if his parents aren't supportive you might have a worse situation becasue although your parents are upset with yoiu being pregnant I'm sure they love you more than his family does and when it comes down to it for example if you and your boyfriend disagree or breakup his family will mostlikely side with him. I hope what I'm saying is making since.
If you have the option of moving in with him I would take it as long as he is supportive and is in no way abusive towards you. You can still get all the help for food clothing school medicaid, child care and so much more. You will be surprised all the help you can receive.
Try not to leave your parents home angry or them angry with you. You love them and they love you and you will need them again I promise you this. If you decide to move let them know that you just need to be in a home that is more supportive right now and where you aren't under so much stress of feeling like a disappointment. Assure them that you want them in your and your baby's life and that right now you just need to focus on staying healthy for the sake of your baby. Once you have the baby let them know you are taking steps to better yourself and the future of your child and that you take full responsibility for your child and just need emotional support right now. Tell them you love them and are available when they are ready to speak.
However, if your boyfriend simply can not take care of you financially or if his home is unsafe or unhealthy in anyway you might want to reconsider the move. You don't want to go from a bad situation to a worse one.
I'm sorry I can't give better advice. I just don't know much about your boyfriend and his family. Just remember to think of your baby first. What is the best solution for your baby it may not always be whats best for you or what makes you the happiest but what is safest, healthiest, and loving for you precious little one.
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