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will my husband came to know about my d&c
hlo sir i am 25 year old girl . 1 year before i was pregnant with my boyfriend and had a abortion.now i m getting married to other guy. would he came to know this after marriage.
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He will probably find out one way or another.
You should probably tell him. Nobody wants to marry a liar, right?
In most people, abortion leaves emotional damage that you are both going to have to deal with. If you aren't honest, then he will think he has done something wrong and made you feel bad.
There is something else to consider. A surprising number of people who have had a D&C performed are never able to bear children again.
Imagine how over your marriage will be if he finds out the reason you can't have a family together is because you were irresponsible with another man, and had an abortion.
Here is the simple truth: People do incredibly stupid things. Everyone knows this.
If you are honest, he will probably be able to overcome this. If you lie, the marriage will probably end someday because of this lie.
If you love him enough to marry him, and he loves you enough to marry you... then everything will work out.
If he doesn't love you enough to overcome this, then it is better to find out now.
Please don't lie to him anymore.
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