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relationship advice
hi so i'm the same person that asked the question before about my boyfriend that broke up with me. i just wanted to thank you for the advice because that's what i need to hear. i know i need to change and be nicer and most of the time our relationship was really good and i was kind and caring but sometimes i did stupid shit just like all people do. keep in mind i was only like that when i was drunk. all i'm asking is how i can fix it. do i wait for him to contact me or should i contact him? if i text him or something do i look stupid and desperate? because i know that's not the type of girl he wants to be with. thanks
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I remember my last girlfriend using a substance to excuse her actions...
being drunk is no excuse. don't do it, and don't get in the habit of doing it, because using it as a crutch is not only a sign of weakness, but also a surefire sign to your ex that you're going to do it again. I suggested earlier that you leave him alone. I strongly suggest that again. however, since you seem determined to get back into this situation, I'll tell you what I have seen work.
Give him some distance for about two weeks, heal up from your emotional wounds, and in that time decide what it is that you want to achieve by continuing this relationship. after this "me" time, try to get back in contact with him. and NO TEXTING OR FACEBOOK BULLSHIT. call him, arrange a face-to-face meeting in neutral ground ie: burger stand or the mall, and talk it out in person.
if he doesn't want to be with you still, fine. accept his choice, and move on.
good luck
-Gunner
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