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I think im bi
16/f so I have alwayz had fantasies of being with another girl, ever since I was 12 I even get turned on when I read/see things about lesbians. I started going to a new school in march and has had a crush on a girl in particular like love at first sight we see eachother more than usual I even save her a seat on the bus and she most of he time sits next to me I know shes lesbian and she shares only a selection of the same friends I do im scared to talk to her when I see her even once or twice she was alone and i couldnt push myself to do it so now what do I do when school starts back next month
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I know our society is very preoccupied with this whole sexual orientation thing... But honestly, I think people just need to calm down.
A lot of things could be going on with you right now. Yes, you might be bisexual. Or, you may just be bi-curious. It's more common than you think for girls to develop crushes on other girls while they are young, only to grow up and date men because they realize that they are heterosexual. This may or may not be the case with you... However, whatever your sexual orientation is or ends up becoming, that is okay. :)
At sixteen, you do not have to commit to a sexual orientation. (You don't have to commit to one when you are older either.) The teenage years are a period of self-discovery. You are just now figuring out who you are and what you like, and even that may change in the years to come. Don't think that you have to make a decision right now or define yourself in definite terms.
So my advice is: relax and take your time. If you like this girl and you want to talk to her, feel free to do so. Talking to her doesn't mean that you have to date her.
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