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insecurity issues


Question Posted Thursday July 14 2011, 5:20 pm

Hello,
my name is Kailey and i am a 17 year old female. I havnt had many convorsations when it came to this so i feel like i need to let this out. My Labia is alot longer than i think it should be. When i was around 7 it just started forming and i dont know why. its about an inch long for no reason. I hate it. I have a boyfriend but he hasnt said anything about it becuase he knwos im insecure clearly. I know he wouldnt break up with me over it but im scared that he secretly wants me to have a porn star pussy, or anything other than what i have, its hard for him to play with me becuase its so out there and its hard to me to enjoy it as i should. i have asked afew guys on things like this but no reply. HOW can i be okaay with this? i have hured to many people say if he doesnt like it hes not worthe is but is it really that big of a deal? and if me and him breakup im scared to ever be touched by another guy because i know how they all are, plus i dont look like i would have it, i am one of the prettiest girls in my school ( im not cocky ) and i have the best looking guy so we look perfect together, but noone knows about my little secret and i wish i didnt either :(


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MissYMelisS answered Friday July 15 2011, 2:22 pm:
Hun, you don't have to worry about it. EVERYONE has a different looking vagina. There is absolutely no "normal" looking vagina out there.

A porn star vagina isn't perfect either. I personally don't like how a lot of porn stars look. (kinda used if u ask me)

Your boyfriend is at the age where he doesn't care about how it looks hes just excited to get to be close to it.

Don't stress to much. I understand you are self conscious about it but if you don't call attention to it and you just act confident and comfortable your boyfriend isn't going to have anything to complain about.

Sex is about having fun!!! So just enjoy yourself and try to not think about it!

Also, as you get older and all your friends start talking more openly about sex and themselves you might be surprised to find out that what you have isn't all that uncommon.

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