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he cheated and blamed me for him cheating?


Question Posted Wednesday July 13 2011, 6:19 pm

so my boyfriend of 2 and a half years cheated on me.first with my cousin and then with his best friend who happens to be a girl.he blamed me for him cheating.i told him it was over and i broke up with him but he stood there and cried and said he was sorry.what do i do?..2 and half years is a really long time.im LOST.

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sml111992 answered Wednesday July 13 2011, 11:47 pm:
he cheated on you twice and blamed you? really he wants you to feel guilty about his actions. dump him yah you had great two years with him and some cheating going on and he wont stop there think about how you found out about this and how he reacted if its not what you like dump him you will never forget this the trust is almost gone you will go phyco trying to keep him on a tight leashe. if you think you can trust him again and stay with him but once you take him back you cant bring this stuff up or youll fall apart get over it and trust him if you want him

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Xui answered Wednesday July 13 2011, 9:51 pm:
You keep telling him it's over and stay strong


Nobody forced him to cheat, Sometimes actions come with consequences. This guy was aware he was cheating and he went and did it anyway.


Not only is cheating on someone a slap in the face, It's even worse when the person they cheated on is a relative or a best friend. This guy is crying because he is guilty and he knows it, His tears are tears of gaining sympathy. When someone cheats, They are very likely to cheat again.

Taking him back would only tell him "Hey! It's okay to cheat on me" Do you honestly want to be with someone who betrayed you? How would you ever trust someone who plays with your feelings ever again? This guy not only cheated once but TWICE

You are better than that and I have a feeling you know that too, You don't need us to tell you. I would however cut all contact with him, He doesn't deserve you in a relationship and he doesn't deserve your friendship either. Fuck him

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