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need help quickly! job interview tomorrow?
So, I've been best friends with this girl ever since I can remember. She was my best friend in high school and has been my best friend ever since we started college. But, something happened along the road. She did a lot of things that I didn't agree with. For instance, she started cheating on her boyfriend, hooking up with girls, lying to her parents (not small lies) and using me as her escape (like, telling her parents she was with me), she got pregnant and had an abortion, she was seeing her ex boyfriend in secret while she was with her boyfriend (who works in the same office). Well, these things seemed to be her personal life and none of my business. But, it became my business when I started covering up for her. It also became my business when she started talking about me behind my back, ditched me at a club and left me by myself, and told my ex boyfriend terrible things about me that weren't true in order for us not to speak anymore. I decided that I wouldn't take action against her or this, because that's not me. But... I decided her to block her off my facebook wall. Not block her... but just so that she couldn't see my wall. I haven't even heard from her in like two months, after she ditched me at the nightclub.
I know that really, I have not done anything to her.I haven't ratted her out, I haven't said anything about her. I simply just chose not to associate with her anymore. She has not made an effort to contact me either. We can get along if she were to, I just couldn't let her into my personal life in the same way. But, her boyfriend gives me very nasty looks when he sees me at school. The dept where she works is at school, the school that we both go to. Her boyfriend already graduated but he works there now.
Well, I have an interview at the same office that she/they work. I may even see her tomorrow. I know I didn't really do anything. But, her bf's bad looks make me feel as if she thinks I did. I hope that tomorrow, if I see her at the office, it isn't awkward. Let alone, if I work there. I would really like to work there because I need the money and I need a job at school. It's very difficult to get a job at school and I"m lucky to have gotten this interview. By no means, should I let this stand in the way.
What can I do to make this more pleasant?
Thank you
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ive been thru this a million times just talk to her and try to be friends..not really friends though u no what they say kepp ur enemys close :D
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I would bet you a million dollars that whatever problem you have with her and with her boyfriend will be brought into that working environment and poison the atmosphere, create havoc on the gossip mill and make it difficult to work there or change employers perceptions of you unfairly. That said, you'll be hired based on your resume and if you have it you can do well but do you really want to put up with high school mentality and BS when you are trying to be serious about your job if you get it? You may need money but you don't need torment. Ask yourself if it's worth it and consider keep searching for something better. It will come. This to me doesn't sound like your rightful place.
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