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leisbainism


Question Posted Wednesday July 6 2011, 11:54 am

ok i get u right, i am 16year of age, i am having a leisbain feeling for someone, i used to be a leisbain but i heard the gospel and give my life to christ, but sometime i always have sexual desire, but each time it comes i find no one to practise it with. i really want to be free for it, because i think leisbain is a spirit. please i need help

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday July 6 2011, 12:39 pm:
While I believe in god I don't belong to an organized religion so I am hard pressed to advise you by the religious aspects of your chosen faith. I would suggest that you will probably find the answer you are looking for within your faith. Ask your priest, pastor or elders if need be.


At your age I would not want to put a label on your sexuality. It is not unusual for people your age to experiment with their sexuality or even to mistake their feelings for someone. It is all part of the hormonal imbalance teenagers go through while going through puberty.


You may be confusing love and lust; just as you may have when you say you use to be a lesbian. It is possible that you could be bi. I have none quite a few women who were bi all through college, then became straight heterosexuals. The reasons for this were lesbian sex was more available and safer. This allowed for them to release the pent up sexual tension they were feeling. They never considered themselves bi, or lesbians. They felt themselves more like sexual adventures or opportunists.


At you age to label yourself one thing or another is wrong. It is causing you to worry about something that most likely will pass as explore your sexuality. As for this girl you feel you have sexual feelings for. Do nothing about them and do a check on your feelings to see if you are confusing lust with love.

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