Hi , recently I've gotten back on my feet when it comes to my love life and a new relationship is begining to sprout. There's just one issue my sister Melanie. She's always finding a way to ruin my realtionship with someone and we don't get along at all. Today the guy I'm talking to; Javier came over, only me and my sister were home. I did not plan on having sex with him we were just sitting and cuddling in my porch, and guess my sister saw cause now she just wants everything, I have to buy her silence.
It's horrible I can't trust my sister with these things. Cause I wouldn't blackmail her. Can you please tell me a stratgey if some sort to get her to put this behind us??
I'm 16/f my sister Melanie is13/f and Javier is 17/m
Additional info, added Tuesday June 28 2011, 6:06 pm: I wasn't supposed to have him over. My patents don't know about him. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Razhie answered Tuesday June 28 2011, 5:53 pm: Look, it not your relationship with your little sister that is the problem here. She thirteen. She's gonna try and pull this shit. The trouble is you aren't letting your parents do thier job - which is to stop her from pulling this shit!
Your problem is your relationship with your parents.
Tell them what happened, and that you are dating someone, and that your sister is trying to blackmail you.
Better you get in trouble with your parents then give your sister this kind of power over you all.
Talk to your parents - unless they are going to violently beat you for having a boy over - it will be better for everyone in the long run, including your relationship with your little sister. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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