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How do I Overcome Shyness With The Guy I Like?
Okay. well I've known this guy for about 7 months. I've always been there for him and now we've been seeing eachother. were hanging out more but the thing is i'm really shy around him. And hes starting to question why. and i don't know what to say. I like him alot but I always don't know what to say to him. This is my first Relationship so I don't know what to do. Can you help me?
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i say this in all my answers to do with questions about guys...if he asked you why your shy just tell him that you really care about him and he makes you nervous...it takes time to get over the butterflies trust me i know, but let him know your interested(:
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It's normal to be shy around a guy you like, especially since he's your first relationship.
Try this- stand in front of a mirror. Stare at yourself for a few seconds and just talk. Get comfortable with your voice, your face, your smile. In order to be comfortable around other people.. you need to get comfortable with yourself. (I know it may sound weird because you're talking to yourself, but this helps boost your self confidence and self-esteem). Once you can talk to yourself in a mirror for a few minutes and not get shy or embarassed, you can move to the next level. Try talking to strangers. Go to a big mall and find someone and just casually start a conversation. Its easier if you start slow- like asking someone who works there about an item. or even just waving to a stranger, smiling, then walking away. THe thing about talking to strangers is that you'll never see the person again, so it doesn't really matter if you embarass yourself or not haha. its great practice.
Once you get comfortable talking to people, just tell your boyfriend that you've been shy around him but you're getting better.
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