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Situation/Boyfriend.
I have a boyfriend whom had done many things, with disregard of respect, against me. Such as lying from the early days we had gotten to know each other to 3-4 months into the relationship. Lies regarding past relationships, calls to the ex, smoking fake weed, what he does when I'm not around, and so on. He does not tell me right away when he wrongs me. Most of the time I find out on my own search for the truth or the few times I work to make him feel guilty. There are few times he disregards my values even when I tell him he's doing it. A lot of his misbehavior has toned down since the second chance I had given him. However, so much of the actions he had done are obscene to me. We're still together but I'm not sure if I still want to be with him. There's another thing: I sort of live with him. I do have somewhere to go if we end our relationship but it would be to horrific circumstances. What do I do?
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Look don't stay in a relationship because of stability. Your boyfriend does not know how special he is to have you. i mean why deal with all of this when you don't need it????? You are not being glued to the place you and him share. All I am saying is that, You need to move on and get past this. I mean you know you are not going to marry this man. If you play with fire all day, there will be one day in life where you get burned. Don't get burned. Just blow out the fire before anything happens. You are going to an unhappy and sad path. One man in your right path will show what you deserve and by the sound of this man who is deceitful and too busy getting high..its not him.
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"Theres a fire................starting in my heart...." Have you heard of it??????? you should listen!!!
P.S. He doesn't listen and he is hiding so many things....just looking through your writing, i see that you already know the answer. My advice may tell you this but you already have you answer and whatever I say might never change it. Good luck and i bid you a good path and good life with what you deserve
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Well if this is how he is treating you, and you don't like it, then I see absolutely no point in keeping the relationship haha.
As for the "horrific circumstances".. just go with it. Thats life. Be spontaneous. If you guys live together and break up, find your own place. yes it might be hard work, but hard work pays off. Life isn't easy... Take this as a chance to work towards something. Who knows, maybe it will be a wake up call for you and you'll experience new things on the way (for example- learning more about yourself)
Good luck and inbox me if you have more questions! :)
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