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Can I still finger her if she hasn't ever got her period yet?
My girlfriends 12 and im 13. Weve been dating for around 7 months and when were making out i feel her butt and i can feel that shes wet. The only problem is that shes 12 and hasnt gotten her period yet. Can i still finger her if she didnt get her period yet? and if so whats the best way to finger her for first timers? I need answers were hanging out tomorrow
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well if you do finger her start with just one finger and if it doesn't hurt her to bad go ahead and use another one, but honestly i think your to young to be doing this stuff anyway(: i hope i helped
-maggielawson
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It's not about the period.
At 12 she is nothing like sexually mature. Women's bodies go through a number of changes when they hit puberty, including the enlarging of the vagina. Just like guys hit puberty and everything grows, it goes for girls too.
She is literally not old enough for this. She hasn't started producing the hormones which will enable her to process whats going on. She isn't grown enough to safely accommodate adult sexual interaction. Her brain is not sufficiently developed enough to make educated decisions about sex and to cope with the emotional and logical responses that sex brings into a person's life.
But back to the whole "size" part yes, you could hurt her. She isn't fully developed, she's going to be alot smaller and tighter right now than she will be as an adult woman. Stretching that she could easily handle as an adult could injure her internally right now. Bleeding, pain, bad memories, worse. Remember she's not an adult. She's not going to be grown enough to deal with this well.
Wait. Give her at least another year. Do it not because either of you wants to (I'm sure she's a willing participant) but because it really is what's best for her.
This is, essentially, your first test of manhood. Can you do right by your woman even when it hurts?
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For starters not trying to be mean sweetie but if you have to ask this question maybe you shouldn't be getting too ahead of yourself so fast. The answer is yes, you can still finger her it doesn't matter when she gets her period if she's old enough to get aroused(wet) then she'll be okay a period has nothing to do with it. Now for tips it will probably hurt and/or be hard to fit anything in her since she's so young and just because I figure you might ask...YES she will still be a virgin after you finger her. PLEASE do not try anything else at your age and there are no real tips on fingering because they are your fingers. Good luck
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