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will he miss me
my boyfriend just ended our year and a half realtionship over a text message telling me he lost feelings for me and he isn't feelin it anymore and all this and that. he had been treating me like he didnt care, but his response was im just not affectionate like that i never have been. and his sister and parents would say yeah he's never been romantic. anyways, we broke up and we went from being together all the time to nothing. not to mention, we work together. although i am moving on, i just think about the day he'll come back and say he made a mistake. but im wondering if since we still see each other at work that will be a bad thing? by this i mean will he not even miss me cause he sees me a couple times a week, or will this be harder for him because he has to see me still to move on?
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The thing is it will be harder on him because the way I see it is you wont ever stop loving someone unless you never loved them at all the mind may forget but the heart doesnt let go
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This isn't going to be what you want to hear.
The reality is, unless you're about to say you'd stopped trying, or caring, or putting your energy into being a good girlfriend, he took a good hard look at what you had to offer, tried it out, and ultimately rejected it.
That being said, even if he reconsidered, he made the right choice, because there are thousands of guys out there for whom you will be perfect, the sun, the moon, and all that.
I also am now going to ask you how much your job means to you. Is it one you never want to leave? Is it important to your career?
If the answer to those questions is no, start looking for another job. Or ask for a change in shifts so you don't have to work with him. Otherwise all you will do is torture yourself, and it will affect your work life.
This is the downside to dating a coworker. (Been there, done that.)
I know it sucks. But I'd use this as an opportunity to change anything in your life that you want to, see it as a new start.
And forget him, because he rejected everything you had to offer, and I'd bet thats a lot.
Good luck sweetie.
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