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Re; 'talk need on how to tell parents i wanted a sex change'


Question Posted Monday June 20 2011, 1:53 pm

I understand what you are saying, i really do and i have researched every posable way of how to do this, i have been researching this since i was 13 its something i really want and my parents will do anything to make me happy. I already live like a boy, even using there rest rooms. I even have have alot of money to go towards it i have been saving every bit of cash i get my hands on for this. How do u suggest i tell my parents? thanks

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday June 21 2011, 9:52 am:
To correctly or properly tell you how to inform your parents I would or should know them. Since I do not know them and I am not all that knowledgeable of someone wanting gender reassignment. I'm not sure what is the best way to go about telling ones parents that you want to change your gender. I thought about this last night and finally decided there must be support groups for those wanting and those that have gone through gender reassignment.


Checking the web this morning I have found there are a number of support groups out there. I searched under the following searches;"gender reassignment support groups then under trans-gender support groups". I found there were many listings under both headings. Some of the groups even had on-line group listings. I'm sure one of these groups may be helpful to you as to how to tell your parents.


The only other advise I can give you is: That after reading your notes I have a feeling your parents have some inkling as to your gender identity concern/problem. It may or may not come as that much of a shock or problem for them when you tell them.


As a salesman I have always been one to be prepared for all the question I could be asked before making a presentation and knowing all the answers to the questions I might ask. What your about to tell your parents, I believe requires you to be prepared for both the best and worst of circumstances. This is one of the reason I suggested starting the psychotherapy portion of the procedure so that you could avail yourself of the professional advice to handle the worst of the circumstances.


Whatever, whenever and however you decide to tell your parents, make sure you do so quietly and as straight forward an honestly as you know how. Regardless of how they receive the information you owe them your honesty.


This is the best I can do for you with this question. I hope I have helped you.

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