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Sex with my bf
I've had sex with my boyfriend but he wants me to give him a blow job. I've never given one and I'm nervous that I won't do it right or something. I've only had sex with two guys and I'm still really self-conscience and I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He tells me that I'm perfect and that he doesn't want me to change, but I've had problems with anorexia in the past and I don't feel like I'm not good enough for anyone. I need advice.
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Here's the thing...if he's making you feel self-concious or pressuring you at all then he is so not worth it! I felt the same way and decided to tell my boyfriend. After a discussion about how any guy who makes me feel bad is not worth my time, I finally felt 100% comfortable with him. If you're not comfortable with him, he's not worth your time.
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Ive been there before,. when no matter what he says your not goodenough.. But here's the thing,. You are. You are really beautiful and amazing. Just because you haven't given a BJ Before does NOT mean you will be bad at it. you could actually be completely amazing. Just don't push yourself to do osmething that your not ready for. only do it when you feel comfortable enough to do it.
As for the self conscience,. it is something that will follow you i'm sorry to say. I have that same problem. But you just have to keep telling yourself,. I am beautiful i am awesome. Any guy would be lucky to have me.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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