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my jerk of an ex
i fell in love with this jerk and he broke my heart 3 years ago. i never talk to him anymore but i see him sometimes. recently i've had sexual dreams about him almost every night and i actually like them! its awful and makes me feel like crap. i even fantasize about him occasionally when i kiss or do anything with my current bf of one year!! how do i stop these dreams?
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Not sure what your dreams are telling you but it seems that you still have something for him. Maybe the dreams are describing how you want the same passion you had in your past relationship to be the one in your current relationship. I would also consider though if you have feelings for your ex when you're with your current boyfriend that isn't a good sign. Its also a bit unfair to your boyfriend that you are thinking of another guy while being with him. You may need to take sometime and figure out what you want or even need. Another thing is maybe you haven't found closure with your ex yet. Hope everything works out. Good luck!
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Go to this website, www.dreammoods.com - it's a really insightful dream "dictionary" if you will.
I pulled this from the site:
To dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself and are feeling a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together.
If it's not the above, I think it's just because you're horny and your brain decides who it wants to have sex with that night. Lol.
And there's really no way to "stop" dreams. They'll eventually stop on their own.
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