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concerned about my best friends
18/f
so my two best friends are turning into sluts. every weekend we go out together and they sleep with a different guy. sometimes they don't even use protection. they're getting an awful reputation. they're also sleeping with guys who have girlfriends. i've talked to them about it and they just say they know what they're doing and that they're careful. i'm really concerned about them because they have always been there for me and are the nicest and best friends i could ever ask for (don't really feel like elaborating but they really are true friends). I just don't know what to do :/ I also don't want people to think I'm a slut because I'm best friends with them (even though I'm a virgin hah).
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Well you should talk to them again but there is a very big chance they won't listen anyway. There isn't much you can do in this situation. I know you love them so obviously you're gonna want to change and help them but they won't always want that. You should just stay the better influence and hope that maybe they'll see what you're doing is better.
People will probably think you're a slut because you're best friends with them. It's just how it is. So if you don't want people thinking that, then you shouldn't be around them. Other than that, I don't think there is anything else you can do.
Good luck!
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you need to have a real talk with them and if it doesn't work find new friends. you will be labeled as a slut if you keep associating with those types of people.
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