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overcoming shyness
I'm shy and it bothers me. I'm not shy around ppl I'm comfortable with. I get quiet when I'm tired or annoyed. also if I'm not comfortable with u. I feel like I bore certain ppl. Yet they don't know me really and I just don't open up. It's hard to. So any advice
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don't try to change who you are, if your shy than be shy, as you said when your comfortable with someone that's when your real personality comes out
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i was exactly the same, still am sometimes. it's okay to be quiet, some people like not having to talk all the time. however if it bothers you, when you hear someone saying something that you have an opinion on or agree with, say so. it only takes a word or two for someone else to start a conversation with you and then you will get to know them, even if its only a little. after all, how can you get to know new people if you won't talk to them because you don't know them? bite the bullet and start talking!
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