i asked the question early how make my girl friend believe she is gorgouse now she dosent believe anything i say she says i miss lead her and lied to her about being pretty now she wont even say she loves me back and just says sure you do. what can this mean and i dont know what to do anymore no matter how good i treat her or the ruby and dimand necklace and bracelet i buy her or all the sweet things i do for her she acts like there nothing to her one day this all happened and now it wiped out the 15 months of happyness we shared togather. is it just her saying she is mad or could it be she dosent want me no more. i need help and advice she means so so much to me. i dont wanna lose her at all.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Monday June 6 2011, 4:09 pm: have you ever thought that maybe she doesnt want to be with you anymore ?
... i know that sucks to think about :/ but youre trying so hard with her, and shes not appreciating anything you do. it sounds to me like she is very materialistic and wants attention.. she obviously loves that you are showering her with gifts and such to make her believe that she is beautiful, but honestly, i feel like she is just using you.
and i know youre not going to listen to me because she means a lot to you and you dont want to lose her, but if you did this for another girl, she would be swept off her feet. you sound like such a great guy and a charming one :] but you dont need to waste that on her.
youve done all you can. and now you have to tell her how YOU feel.. tell her what you told me.. you dont think she wants to be with you anymore.
communication is key, but you have to be open and honest with her, and when you talk to her, you need to say that you wont get upset if she doesnt want to be with you anymore [even though, if she says she doesnt want to be with you, of course youll be upset]
trust me.. when a girl stops trying and always makes you feel like you do now, its time to let her go.
good luck ! hope i helped. xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
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