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Hi, I need some answers. I'm 15 and female.
I've had sex and I was only with my ex for an week and the condom broke and I might be pregnant, I'm very scared. My mom knows that I might be pregnant, last Saturday I snuck out of my house to go see an 19 year old guy and I love him. He loves me, I just don't know how I can tell my parents that I love him. They know him and DISLIKE him.. He's very caring and protective.. Can you tell me how I can tell them? Oh and I didn't have sex with the 19 year old guy. It was an 17 year old guy which is my ex.
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In most states you are below the age of consent. Meaning you can not legally consent to do anything with this boy without getting him in real trouble with the law. Just being with him places him in the position of charges of statutory rape. Sex does not have to happen just the fact that you two are together and he is that much older than you makes it possible for the police to charge him. He can also be charged with leading to the delinquency of a minor as well as several other charges. These are real charges that will follow him for the rest of his life. If you love him you will let him go before you ruin his life.
Your 15, if you are lucky enough not to be pregnant then learn a lesson from this. You are to young and too immature to be having sex.
While condoms are a form of birth control they are not 100% effective. In fact the statistics I've seen say the are less that 85% effective when worn correctly. The fact that the condom broke says it was not worn correctly.
Did you tell this 19 year boy old how old you really are. Are you really 15 or are you 14 soon to be 15. Does he think you are closer to 17. Most boys his age, 18 and older are very familiar with the statutory rape laws. I think if he knew exactly how old you are he would not be dating or seeing you. If this boy does not know EXACTLY how old you are you need to tell him. You will not like his reaction that I am almost certain of but it is the right and fair thing to do.
Whatever you decide to tell your mom, when she finds out how old he is, she should forbid you to see him and she has every reason to do so. I know this is not the answer you are looking for. The fact that you have written to me says you know you are wrong. So do what you know is right and fess up to this young man with your true age. Stop sneaking out of the house for any and all reasons. Trust that your parents know what they are doing when they tell you something.
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