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In love with my best friend (FWB) but he pisses me off. what to do?
My best friend of 15 years. 10 years ago I fell in love with him. 5 years ago we started having sex but he never wanted a gf. Now that we are both sleeping together each weekend but don't live together. He pisses me off by not wanting to spend time with me except for sex. He's always busy doing things. I want us to be bf/gf but he's thinking friends with benefits. Should I just break it off altogether and not even be friends with him anymore? It tears me up inside thinking about him all the time. what to do?
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so... i am guessing you are 25? otherwise you would be 20? anyways, if you are young you really shouldnt be worried about getting into such a serious relationship, unless you plan on marrying this guy. Just have fun and see where it goes, you can always pull the chord.
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I know this might be hard but i think/know is better to break this off now and probably cut the relationship of being friends with each other. both of you guys agreed to go into this 'friends with benefit' thing but its clear you went in hoping it will change things for the better. Going after someone who clearly doesn't want the same thing as you and told you first hand what he wanted only sex and nothing more. so you're still hanging around him giving exactly what he wanted and nothing more, you're just an object and not a friend per say. the lines has been crossed and its clear it has been dissolved from the start.
it might be hard but you'll find someone better and who will love you from the start. not someone who doesn't acknowledge the love between you
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