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frenemies
okay, so i've know this girl since middle school and in gr.9 something happened it was a group fight 2 sides againts each other and now where not friends but the girl tht was on here side were r talking but their not talking ... so let me get to the point so im going to to a party and she's invited what do i do i kinda want to talk to her but wat if she rejects me or ignores mee and im kinda sacred of wat my friends will think ??? if i talk to her help
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Dear "Frenemies"
I know it's easier said than done but, don't fear rejection. This is your big chance to mend whatever happened in the past. Your being a real man here by stepping up to the plate and approaching her first!
IF you see her at this party, approach her, and if she just shrugs you off and ignores you. Guess what? You tried. At that point you made your move, and if she chooses not to mature up to the situation then that itself should tell you to move on pal.
As for your friends, I know how it goes. Your friends will more than likely give you grief for talking to this girl. So what, they'll forget all about it by the end of the week! My advice to you would be swallow your fear and see what happens. You may be surprised at the outcome. Sometimes it pays to be the bigger person.
Hoping for the best,
Braylen
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