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Question Posted Monday May 30 2011, 11:31 pm

18/f
I dated this one guy on and off through out high school. He was a little older then me. So, after my junior year, he went away to college, three hours away. He ended the relationship with me almost immediately after getting accepted into the art school. He met some other skank, and I was really upset about it. They broke up after about 2 months. I didn't talk to him at all. For about a year and a half. Then, randomly, he called me again. And it was like everything was the same. And then we talked on occasion after that, and then all of a sudden his friends and family started adding me on facebook...? people i really never even met.

When we talked, he told me he was thinking about me, and a lot of things reminded him of me. he talked about our past.

OH. and then like about a year ago, he called me accidentally and he was talking about me, and saying how he loved me. i didn't know if he had been drinking or what, so i just never said anything..

what does this mean? what should i do?

he is back for the summer, but i haven't really asked him to hang out, because i want him to ask me, and i just began talking to someone else & i don't know how to handle this. ?


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orphans answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 12:42 am:
Hes probably using you as a rebound. Im a guy myself, and i could say that ive done the same thing. Not something i am proud of. But hey, thats how guys are. We are assholes.
From what i hear so far, this guy is not sure of what he wants, and i suggest you forgetting him, because he seems like he acts different and he drinks and goes to sluts, and you dont want a guy like that. And plus, from what ive learned, ive learned that relationships cant get back together if everything is the same. Has anything changed with him at all? Has he changed for the better? Has his feelings changed for you? If nothing has changed, then getting back together can't work, in my opinion. You need to move on.

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