|
Getting noticed by college girls
Im a guy and im about to head into college. What are some tips to get noticed by girls? Ive always heard that dating in college is more easy? or more hard? Any advice?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
be clean and work out
]
hey well I'm going to college next year and i'm a girl. Let me tell you this- I will notice a guy if he kind of makes the first move and starts talking to me. I'm not really the type of girl who will just see random people and become friends with them right away. Its easier for me when other people make the first move, then I just become myself around them and then we become friends :) So try to be outgoing and introduce yourself to girls. Remember this- most freshman in college are going to be clueless. They wont know where to sit at lunch, or where the cool parties are at, or where they can find the library. So just be cool and don't be nervous, because chances are.. they are feeling the same way! So if you see a girl just wandering around, say something like- dont worry I am new to this school too. or something like that haha. Also, find something in common. Even if its something stupid like you're both wearing the same shoes haha. Oh and another big thing is I will absolutely love it when guys can make me laugh out of the blue. So if I have no clue who you are, but you just come up to me and make me laugh, right away I will be happy and want to get to know you more.
Be yourself. don't try to have an attitude that's different than who you truly are, girls can tell and its always a turn-off. Smile a lot too :) Good luck and congrats on making it this far.
]
Yes, dating in college is a bit easier, for there tend to be more bachelorettes and common ground. So, what do girls look for in a guy to date there? In general: confidence, a smile and a cool personality (shows you are outgoing). Cheesy pick-up lines sometimes work too, lol. Of course every girl looks for something different in a guy that will suit thier individual interests, such as having something in common or having that good/bad boy kind of vibe - which ever you have, you should be true to that. There is nothing worse than pretending to be into something you are not just to get a girls attention... we will catch on!
If a guy came up to me and casually asked me out for a movie/drink, I would love that. Be bold if you know the girls already interested (or not). If you aren't used to being bold, try a quick smile or wink; they work too. Personally: any guy who can show me he is ready for fun, is down for anything, who can make me laugh and/or isn't afraid of representing his querks... is an ace. But that's just one girls opinion ;)
]
More Questions: |