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should i tell my best friend i'm crushing on her? (both girls)
ok. so i have a pretty big crush on my best friend. sheknows i have a secret, and she knows its about her but i'm not certain she knows unless she has picked up my hints when i start to flirt with her ; ) she has said she was straight a while ago, but she has told me to my face that she lies to me sometimes. i dont know if she even likes me back because she is sending really mixed signals. anyway, she wont stop bugging me about my secret (she even pulled me by my hair and threatened a nipple twister if i didnt tell her) so i need to know, should i just tell her and get it over and stop the constant thoughts about her? do i hide i forever and have her keep bugging me about it? if i admit to liking her, what should i say so i don't sound creepy or perverted or dumb? p. s. she always teases me about how i am obsessed with her but i deny it. this is a good indicator that she knows my secret but she still insists on me telling her. why is that? please answer all of my questions. thanks.
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You don't have to tell her right away. Go out on some friend dates with her and see how she acts when it's just you and her. Go to the mall, have some coffee or a little lunch. If you get a strong vibe from her, invite her over for a sleepover and play some truth or dare. That will break the ice and clear things up for sure. If she does turn you down, don't feel discouraged because she may just want to be friends. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I believe if you have a fancy for someone, you should let them know. If you want to tell her perhaps make sure it's in private and you two are alone. Just sit her down and say "I don't want things to become weird between us, I really enjoy your company as you are my best friend, but I would like you to know that I do have a crush on you. I hope you won't allow it to ruin our friendship because you are still a dear friend to me" or whatever.. ^_^
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