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what do i do about this girl?


Question Posted Saturday May 21 2011, 7:57 am

So i've been with this guy not for too long now, and evryone was so happy for us, and supportive. Because evreyone thought i would say no. He likes me, at the moment i like a lil bit but not as much as he likes me. But i figured why not? Hes nice, funny, etc. If i end up having feelings for him then our relationship will be serious, but if we dont then we will just break up. So i gave him a chance. As i said everyone is happy for me. And this girl i am aquaintences with says on chat he is a horrible person and hes a flirt, so have fun with that. and i was like k thanks. and then she texts her friend that is also my friend, it was actually the girl that tryed to hook us up, and says al this rudeee stuff about me that makes her look so bad like a jealous bitch, like she said i would be mad if my bf didnt talk to me. like stfu we just started dating, and her bf doesnt even talk to her. So i dont know what to do, because she has a bf, but she likes my bf, and my bf likes me. wtf do i do? i mean i knowwwwww she is jealous and mad, because when she was single she always led him and acted like she hated him, when we know she like him. ANSWERRRSSS lolll thanks, anything goess.

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Xui answered Saturday May 21 2011, 3:15 pm:
Relationships aren't about what other people think, If you like your boyfriend and you two have a strong bond then that is all that you should be focused on. Bonding comes within time, As of now you and your boyfriend are in the beginning stage of dating and are just starting to "really" get to know one another. The key, Is communication. If your boyfriend really appreciates you and respects you then you should have no problem discussing how you feel. To be honest, You will ALWAYS have someone who disapproves and is jealous of a relationship. You can't make everyone happy and the fact that she is acting immature and selfish is her problem. Jealousy is a funny thing, She envy's you because you have what she wants. The relationship is about you and your boyfriend, In order to make it work you have to put in the effort and communicate as every relationship will have it's up and downs from time to time. My advise: Ignore her and show her you don't care and I suggest the boyfriend to do the same. If you two show her you both have a strong relationship then she will not be able to break through and she will eventually see that in time.

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