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meeting up with the guy i like tomorrow...and no idea whatsoever what to do
im 18/f hes 19/m
well i like my bestfriend and were hanging out at his house again tomorrow, except this time we have no idea what to do. everytime i go over his house we play video games, watch movies, go for walks, play at parks, go to the shops, go on drives. And we never have any idea of what else to do, considering we hang out for 10+hours.
do you have any suggestions of things we could do? we're both limited on money and he says the balls in my court for whatever we want to do. but i just cant think of anything we havent already done! haha. we need to do something different considering we do the same thing all the time and its becoming very routine haha. he wont tell me what he feels like doing cause he says he'll be happy with whatever i decide. i just cant think of anything! help?
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This guy does have something in mind but can't pull the trigger on it. Guys don't spend that kind of time with women unless they want to get more intimate with them. He is another "nice guy" who is too much of a pussy to just lay it out there for you to say yes or no too, which wastes a lot of his time and probably yours, too.
If you have this guy on the friend list, which is a kind of sexual exile, you need to tell him NOW that you have no intention of your relationship going any further than just being friends. When he said, "the ball is in your court," what he actually meant was, "please ask me to be your boyfriend because I don't have the balls to put the relationship on a closer basis myself."
Either that or he's gay, in which case everything I just wrote is moot.
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Are you both in college? Many places have free admission with a college ID. Ask around! the MoFA in Boston does that :)
Look up places near you on Yelp, and explore them. Look up random landmarks on Wikipedia, and go there. Take pictures or something. Drive somewhere new. Yea, gas is expensive, but it's still cheaper than a lot of things, so take a road trip.
-LM
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