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I am so confused? Am i letting them down? Help Please!
Ok, so i am 16/f and really confused about my sexuality. I have a big crush on a guy but I am also attracted to girls, like a few of my good looking friends.I think I might be BI but i really dont know how to tell. I am really confused and could use some advice. Also If i am BI, how do I tell my parents. There not homophobes or anything, but I just dont know how to say it to their faces. I feel like if i do turn out to be bi and i tell them Ill be letting them down as a daughter because i am suppose to be with men, not women. None of my friends no either. Please help, I am so confused
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I would skip telling your parents until you have a more concrete fix on your sexuality.
At your age, sexual experimentation and curiosity are totally normal. So what your assignment in this regard is to relax and just acknowledge to yourself that you are also interested in women as well as guys. It definitely doubles your chances, as the old joke goes, of getting a date for Friday night. *lol
If it turns out you really are bi or even lesbian, that isn't a bad thing. It is just the way you're wired and it doesn't mean you're a bad person or dirty or whatever. And you are going to attract more people if you like yourself anyway. I hope you find a partner, whatever the sex, who will give you lots of love and who you can reciprocate that to.
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