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I want to know if im a slut n acouple other things?
Ok so im 13 and i have been tlking to this kid for like a couple months and he asked me if i would ever give him a lap dance? And i would like to but i dont wanna be a slut or be called a whore and i cant like talk to my bestfriends because they would think im a ehore and tell like their mom or somtin and my mom would never trust me or i dont know what she would say.. Im scared to find out what she would say she would never respect me!!! Ever and im scared i dont know what to do i want to do it but i dont want to be a slut and he said if i would let him feel me up and i would but like should i!!! Help me... I dont know
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Do you know how far I went with a boy at 13? No where! I didn't have my first kiss til I was 16!
I seem like a late bloomer, but to be honest I'm glad I waited. Girls who let boys do stuff to them at such a young age often end up with problems when they get older.
At 13, you aren't even fully developed yet. Your body isn't ready to do all the sexual things. This is a good thing, because you have the rest of your life to do that! There is no rush!
Don't EVER let a guy pressure you into doing things. It has to 100% be your choice. If he says he'll break up with you if you don't have sex, or give a lap dance as you said, then he's a jerk. He's immature and needs to grow up before being with a girl.
Lap dances are usually done by exotic dancers, strippers, or prostitutes. Do you want to categorize yourself with them at the young age of 13?
I think you should wait until you are older to do anything with a boy besides kissing. No one regrets WAITING to have sex, but a lot of people regret having sex too early.
Good luck,
-Abby
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