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I like a boy but can't express my feelings what should i do?
I m from india .I like a boy since two year's but i just don't know how to tell him .what should i do?
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Personally, the best, most efficient way to get with this guy is to just flat out ask him out. However, I'm not familiar with Indian dating etiquette, so I don't know if that is considered immodest for women.
Since you guys are in India, though, he's probably a cricket or soccer fan. Talk to him about that and sort of say, and you can do it in a humorous way, "maybe we should go to a match together sometime since I've never been." And ten later in the conversation tell him he's cute and smart. If he doesn't get the message after that his father needs to talk to him about women.
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I'll take it from the top as I don't get the whole situation...
Unless you are looking for a one night stand I suppose you could get a conversation started, find out more about him, objectivly listen.
Build on things you both like... don't be manipulative and "like" everything about him, it comes across as needy... nobody likes needy in the beginning. So he likes frogs and you like frogs too, maybe make a meeting to go to a pond and watch frogs together... you know. Build a connection. Do differant things together.
I personally believe that talking about liking somebody to them early on jinx the whole thing... i could be wrong there. So, if by then he has not made a move, you will have to... yeah to the female libiration! It's a leap, I know... but no bigger one than men have made for ages (ooh and have I hit hard walls in my time, it makes us stronger).
Easiest way I know is:
Take this slow, start being touchy with him... start small... like only touch his arm for a second during conversation (once every 10/15 minutes). As time progress, insist he walks arm in arm, hold hands, you can maybe spank him when he is bad, hug him when he makes you laugh. As more time passes sit closer next to him and so both be comfortable. Then one day when you are sitting close and speaking, turn and kiss him gently. You'll have to adjust this step by step progression to your own customs, values and comfort.
IMPORTANT: You have to start doing this as soon as posible and calmly progress as you get to know each other better, till later on when the moment is right.
If he gets tense or weirded out at some point, don't worry, continue what you did before that point and at a later stage try progres again.
He should get the idea before you try to kiss him and either kiss you first or tell you that he is not interested, if not... just keep progressing.
Best of luck to you!
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