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is he trying to tell me something?
im 18/f and hes 19/m :)
ok so long story short, i really like my bestfriend. I've never met anyone more like me in my life and we both thinks its the most amazing thing. Im so lucky to have found him and im really falling for him. Anyway, two weeks ago i was nervous and hopeless about a future together with him, thinking that he couldnt possibly have the same feelings for me as i did him. Anyway, i got an unexpected phone call from a mutual friend of ours telling me that i dont need to worry and to stop stressing. i asked her why and she told me not to say anything, but that my best friend likes me alot and thinks im insanely beautiful. Hes came out of a horrible break up after 5 years 6 months ago, and says he wants to be a single for a little bit longer. But he does like me alot and wants to be with me when hes not so terrified of relationships. he also told her that if i ended up dating anyone else that he would be extremely upset and know that it 'wasnt meant to be'. but to be honest i dont want anyone else but him, and im willing to wait till hes ready. Again i have to pretend i dont know any of this, as he told her that he wants to tell me personally, but she knew how upset i was going and had to.
so anyway that was a couple of weeks ago that i found out about that, and since then we havent been able to see each other due to his band being on tour. It wasnt till yesterday i started doubting his feelings for me again, as he didnt really text me or anything much, but when he did he would say some really sweet things. anyway yesterday he texted me (coming as a complete surprise cause he barely texts me ahhah) and told me "listen to invincible by tonight alive. then text me back, i will say no more"
so i listened to the song and immeadiatly began to cry.
the lyrics are as follows:
i love you in the light, i love you in the dark
and my mind has been made up
because you threw the spark, that set my heart on fire
now the stars are falling from the sky,
there on fire and falling
straight into your eyes, your eyes.
i am invincible, as long as i love you
i am invincible, theres nothing we cannot do.
missing you everyday- its not enough for me.
we make it so hard for ourselves so easily
and its funny the one same thing that makes me crazy
is the same thing that keeps me sane
my minds a million miles away
but nothing ever changes, no never change.
cause i am invincible, as long as i love you
i am in invincible, theres nothing we cannot do
your arms are my home,
and ive been homesick for oh so long
so bring me back home
back where i, back where i belong
cause i am invincible,
i am invincible
i am invincible, as long as i love you
i am invincible, theres nothing we cannot do
i am invincible
i am invincible as long as im in love
im in love with you
I then texted him back saying how i thought the song was amazing! and i was speechless. he then responded with "i thought you'd like it :) it came on in the car just then and im chillin in the back seat and thought of you :)"
do you think the song meant anything in regards to his feelings for me? is he trying to tell me something? etc etc
any advice appreciated :)
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He's totally diggin you. There's no way he would tell you to listen to that song and him not mean anything by it. But until he completely comes out and clearly tells you how he feels, i'd just play it cool. When he gets home definitely make plans to chill and see where it goes from there. Good luck :) my inbox is always open
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Sorry, but OF COURSE IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU!! I mean, he said that he heard the song and thought of you!!
Look, I'm a girl, I understand that we tend to obsess, A LOT about the guys we like. If he doesn't text us back immediately, we start to panic and stuff like that! You heard it from a friend, u trust that friend. U and your best friend seem like soul mates, and he's not going anywhere anytime soon! Don't rush it! Let things go..so they slowly fall into place! Relax...you have feelings..and it's almost certain that he has feelings for you too, so chill!!! Stop stressing on whether he likes you or whether he doesn't, why he's not writing you or calling you. He's on tour dammit, and although I'm sure you're always on his mind, it's hard to keep in touch with family while on tour. At least he is writing you! If you keep obsessing, trying to plan the whole thing so it's perfect, it will never be! I wish you and your best friend happiness, and I hope you two take your time to fall in love!
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Hey,
Uh ... YES the song meant everything in regards to his feelings for you! It's understandable that he got busy with the tour and is taking things slowly regarding relationships but my my my, he's basically saying that he belongs with you. Now don't be surprised when he comes serenading you with that song soon =).
K
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