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My dad is leaving us and going mexico!
my step-dad is going back to mexico because he
thinks my mom doesnt love him anymore. but thats not true. he just thinks that because he has depression and he thinks no one loves him anymore. but i do and so does my mom. he left today and im crying. i BEGGED my to stay like literally on my knees,but his depression got a hold of him and he left.
he was like my REAL DAD to me. he took me to the father-daughter dance,takes me to school,feeds me, gives me advice ALL the things a dad does that MY REAL DAD NEVER DID.i only get to see my real dad on wednesdays and every other weekend. but my step-dad I ALWAYS SAW HIM.
before he left he told me, "dont cry. one day life will reunite us, when you least expect it."
im soo mad at god right now. i PRAYED that he wouldnt go. but i guess i wasnt meant to have a father that stays around.my step-dad isnt coming back because he's not legal.
i just wanna know if i will ever see him again....
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I'm going to try to answer this with as much sensitivity as possible, because I can tell you're really hurting. Did your step father leave any kind of contact information? If he did, just take advantage of that. You could write him lefts, emails, whatever to keep him up to date with your life.
If he didn't leave any contact information, it may help you to heal if you keep some kind of journal so if he comes back, he wont feel like he's missed out on a chunk of your life.
As hard as it may sound to do this, don't hold your breath for him to come back. Be open,willing to taking him back if he does, but not putting much hope into it. This way if he does come back, you're not overwhelmed, but if he doesn't, you're not crushed.
I'm sorry,there's no way I can tell you if he's coming back. Just worry about healing yourself and helping your mother heal.
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